You shouldn't use text messaging when...

TEXT MESSAGING IS A CASUAL FORM OF COMMUNICATION   YOU SHOULDN'T USE TEXT MESSAGING WHEN ... There are some instances when it is inappropriate to send a text.  The topic maybe too important, personal, formal or socially unacceptable.  The following are some scenario's you should consider another form of communication other than text messaging: Cancelling on someone at the last minute.  This deserves the courtesy of a phone call. Sending an invitation. Breaking off a relationship with someone. Asking someone out for a date. Making contact with an individual for the first time. Contacting an employer. Discussing critical work issues. Delivering bad news or good news.  This would require a face-to-face conversation or a phone call if that's the only option. Accepting or declining a job offer. Responding to voice mails should be followed up with a phone call.

Upcoming Etiquette Courses October 7 - 28 E Is For Etiquette ages 6-8   October 20 - November 10 Etiquette for Young Ladies and Young Men ages 9 - 12 Morning Class    Class size is limited early registration is advised. Visit our website in October for our New 2019 Etiquette Course Schedules www.itsallaboutetiquette.com or call us at  480 510-6346

This Summer be the Perfect Houseguest that people will want to invite back

BE THE PERFECT HOUSEGUEST THAT PEOPLE WILL WANT TO INVITE BACK Staying with a friend or family member this summer?   It's important to brush up on your houseguest manners prior to your arrival.   Here are some tips that will make your stay enjoyable for everyone involved. Decide on a date -  Plan your dates with your host and stick to them. Avoid extended stays.  "Stay as long as want," doesn't really mean stay another week. Communicate who will be visiting-  Make sure your host knows who is coming. Don't show up with unexpected friends and leave "fluffy" at home.   Don't bring the kitchen sink - Be mindful of what you are packing.  Your host doesn't want to see that you've packed for a months stay. Keep living areas clean - If you are in the guest room keep that room neat and tidy. Make your bed every morning and hang up your clothes. A good rule of thumb is to keep this room as it was when you arrived. If you are sleeping on the sofa. Fold blankets neatly and put your pillow and bedding in a designated area out of the way,  Don't leave your things around the house, bring them back to your room.  This goes for toiletries in the bathroom.  Bring them in to get ready and take them out when you are finished.  Make sure you keep this room tidy as well.  Don't leave water stains on the mirror or towels on the floor. Help out as much as possible - Offer to buy groceries, cook dinner, take your host out to dinner, help with the dishes, and empty the trash. Don't expect the host to be your maid. Do these chores when the host is not around.   Your host is not your travel guide or your babysitter -  Try to plan things to do on your own.  You can certainly ask your host if they would like to join you, but they have probably been there done that already.  If you bring children to visit, have your children bring their best manners. Discuss what is expected of them prior to your travel.   Go with the flow -  Follow the house rules whatever they may be. When leaving, tidy up -  Strip your bed and take linens and towels to the laundry room.  Wipe down the bathroom counter tops and mirror of any stains. Gift for the host-  It is always nice to bring or send a gift. A thank you note should also be sent afterwards to let your host know how much you appreciated their hospitality.   Next year when your host calls you about coming out to visit for the summer, you can rest assure you were the perfect houseguest! Like us on facebook                                          Watch for us on Arizona Midday, Monday July 23rd.  Destry and I will be talking about  "Hotel Etiquette" Should you tip the maid?   1 p.m. channel 12 NBC Upcoming Etiquette Courses  Now Accepting Enrollment July Summer Etiquette Camp for ages 9-12 September 1 Business Etiquette Workshop for the Professional   September 8 & 9 Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18   September 15 - October 6 E Is For Etiquette ages 6-8   October 20 - November 10 Etiquette for Young Ladies and Young Men ages 9 - 12    Class size is limited early registration is advised See what people are saying about our classes on Yelp! Class Location will be in Scottsdale

For more information about our  Business Etiquette & Professional Development Training  please visit our website at    www.itsallaboutetiquette.com or call 480 510-6346   SueAnn Brown Phone: 480-510-6346 Fax: 480-272-9974 Email: info@ItsAllAboutEtiquette.com  Follow Us

Hotel Guest Etiquette

Hotel Guest Etiquette        People you should tip: Parking valet - on drop-off and pick-up of your vehicle Doorman - on arrival and departure Porter - after bags have been picked up Concierge - if you have been working with the concierge.  At the end of the hotel stay Restaurant servers - 10 - 15 - 20% Cleaning staff - on the desk or dresser in a visible location each morning.  Leave a note saying it is okay to take the money as a tip Hotel Room Etiquette Treat all the furniture and fixtures in the room with care.Never take reusable items when you leave.  You may take consumables such as shampoo, conditioner, soap, and lotions. However, bathrobes, towels, dishes, glasses, mugs, coffee pots, irons, and other objects are there for use only during your hotel stay.  Be a good neighbor.  Keep the noise down with the television, music, voices and anything that could disrupt the people next door.  If someone else is noisy, call the front desk.  Don't confront them let the hotel staff work it out. Before you leave the room for the day, put your dirty towels in a pile on one spot of the bathroom floor. Don't leave trash lying around. Dispose of it in trash receptacles. Do not answer the door unless you are fully dressed. Common Areas and Facilities  Be quiet when walking through the hallways after 9 p.m. and before 8 a.m. Do not slam your hotel door shut. Keep your children controlled in open areas.  No screaming or running around. When entering the elevator move to the very back so others can board.  Push floor buttons when everyone is in the elevator.  While waiting for the elevator, don't stand in front of the elevator.  Stand to the side so riders can exit. Pay attention to the gym and pool rules. Checkout    Be sure to check out on time.  If you need to store your baggage, ask the porter station to hold your bags. They will give you a ticket to claim your bags later. Happy Travels! Watch for us on Channel 15 News Thursday, June 22 at 10 p.m. We will be talking about when to tip and not to tip                                          Upcoming Classes Enrolling Now!    June & July Summer Etiquette Camp for ages 6-8 & 9-12 September 1 Business Etiquette Workshop for the Professional   September 8 & 9 Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18   September 15 - October 6 E Is For Etiquette ages 6-8   October 20 - November 10 Etiquette for Young Ladies and Young Men ages 9 - 12    Class size is limited early registration is advised See what people are saying about our classes!

BUSINESS ETIQUETTE AND PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT TRAINING, ADULT WORKSHOPS AND CHILDREN'S CLASSES PLEASE CALL 480 510-6346 OR VISIT OUR WEBSITE AT www.itsallaboutetiquette.com         SueAnn Brown  Phone: 480-510-6346

Parents, teaching your children how to set the table just got easier

Table Setting  Etiquette Placemat

Teach your kids table manners and the proper way to set the table with this beautiful instructional placemat! Our customized two-sided placemat will help teach table setting placement on one side and table manners on the other. 

Once a week select a table manner skill from the placemat and practice the skill for one week. Parent’s, your family members will love this training tool and the end results!

Product Description

When children learn to eat with good manners, they will be less likely to offend, and more likely to impress.  A great tool for schools and children ages of 4 and up.

Purchase one placemat for $15.00 or a set of four for $45.00 with FREE shipping!

To order please visit our website www.itsallaboutetiquette.com and click store or give us a call at 480 510-6346!

Summer Etiquette Camp Enrolling Now!

Are you looking for a GREAT Summer Camp?


Would you like your child to get helpful and fun-filled lessons in manners and proper etiquette? As much as you try teaching proper manners at home, sometimes children just need to learn these important lessons from another adult. Certified Etiquette Instructor, SueAnn Brown, owner of "It's All About Etiquette," will offer a four-day etiquette course for children ages 6 to 8 and 9-12. 

Attendees will learn social etiquette, self-confidence, and integrity with an emphasis on respect and value for others. Topics covered will include: self-introduction and introducing others, handshaking, eye contact and smiling, saying "please, thank you, you're welcome," making mistakes and apologizing, avoiding rude behavior, telephone etiquette, table skills and dining manners, grooming and posture, and more. A special graduation ceremony will be held on the final day of class.
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Teaching "Social Media Manners" to You Teen

 

As parents we spend a great deal of time teaching our children manners: sharing with others, being respectful, saying "please" and "thank you." We want them to learn how to act in various social situation, so why not on-line, too? We have to face the fact that social media is not just a phase-it's is how pre-teens and teens communicate and bond with their peers. But it's also not just for teens. More and more adults are joining social media. There is a new set of manners for social media for everyone to follow. 1. Exercise the Golden Rule - Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. If you wouldn't speak to the person that way face to face, then don't do it on-line. 2. Remember everything you post on-line is public. It doesn't matter whether or not you delete the message or text. If you've published it, it's traceable. When you post things on-line, you're creating a cyber fingerprint that can be found for years to come. 3. DON'T USE ALL CAPS when you're emailing or posting something. It is a form of SHOUTING. 4. Speak kindly. Remember: it may look like a screen in front of you, but there's another person with feelings on the receiving end. 5. Don't post things when you're angry. It's never a good idea to post something when you're emotional. Take some time to clear your head before you deal with the situation. This will help you refrain from saying something that you later regret. 6. Use different usernames and passwords. Don't use the same one all the time. Many teens use the same username and password for all of their sites and this is not a good idea. If someone figures out your security information, they'll have access to everything. It's best to set-up different usernames and passwords for maximum protection. 7. Don't make up silly email addresses. You will use your email address for college applications, job applications, resumes, and scholarship opportunities. Look at your email address; Does it set a good impression? If not, reset it. 8. Don't post pictures of yourself or others unless you mind them being shared with everyone. Be very selective of what you upload on the computer.  If you can't send the picture to your Grandmother, you shouldn't be putting it on the internet. If it's a friend's photo, ask yourself if their parents would want that photo posted. If the answer's "no" then don't publish it. 9. Don't talk to strangers. Don't get into chat rooms and reveal confidential things about yourself. You may feel that you know the person on the other end of your cyber connection, but they can be a phony. 10. Don't give out personal and confidential information on-line. Never share your full name, home address, phone number, Social Security number, passwords, names of family members, or credit card numbers. Note to Parent.  One of the best ways you can teach social media manners is to practice them yourself. Our kids take their most important lessons not by what we tell them to do, but what they see US do. The social media manners they take to heart will be the ones taught by example. Let's be the role models they need.                                                          Upcoming Classes Enrolling Now!  March 24 & 25 Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18 April 7 Everyday Etiquette for Adult A great workshop for business professionals! May 19 & 20 Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18 May 26 Business Etiquette Workshop for the Professional New Workshop June & July Summer Etiquette Camp for ages 6-8 & 9-12 September 1 Business Etiquette Workshop for the Professional September 8 & 9 Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18 September 15 - October 6 E Is For Etiquette ages 6-8 October 20 - November 10 Etiquette for Young Ladies and Young Men ages 9 - 12  Class size is limited early registration is advised.

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14 Table Manners Children should Know By the Age of Six

14 Table Manners Children Should Know By The Age of Six   Children do not learn proper table manners overnight. It takes years of repetition and consistent training to refine their skills. Parents have eighteen years to help shape their child's table manners so there is plenty of time to patiently work with them. Expect lots of errors and missteps, use gentle guidance, never scold or embarrass, just kindly correct and continue eating.  If parents begin teaching manners when their children are toddlers, by the time the kids are in kindergarten they will have mastery of the basics.       The following is a list of table manners that your child should have a good grasp of by age six. 1.  Wash their hands and face before sitting down to the table.   2.  Sit down in their proper seat and put their napkin in their lap. 3.  Wait to begin eating until everyone is seated and has been served. Many families wait until an adult gives permission to start eating. 4.  Stay seated in their seats without wiggling in their chairs, going under the table, or getting up and down. 5.  Say, "Excuse Me," and ask permission to leave the table. 6.  Elbows do not belong on the table. 7.  Mouths should stay closed while chewing and pieces should be bite sized. 8.   "May I please" and "Thank you" should be used when children would like food and never reach across the table. 9.  Participate in the conversation during dinner and no interruptions when other people are talking. 10. Slurping, burping, squealing, singing, humming are all sounds that are not to be made at the table. 11. It is never kind or polite to make negative comments about what is being served for dinner. 12. Before getting up at the end of the meal say, "May I please be excused?" 13. Ask if adults would like them to clear their dinner plate. 14. Thank the cook. Teaching children to use good table manners is a wonderful gift that will serve them well throughout their entire lives.

Upcoming Etiquette Courses 2018 February 10 - March 3 E Is For Etiquette ages 6-8 March 24 & 25 Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18 April 7 Everyday Etiquette for Adult A great workshop for business professionals! May 19 & 20 Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18 June & July Summer Etiquette Camp for ages 6-8, 9-12 September 8 & 9 Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18 September 15 - October 6 E Is For Etiquette ages 6-8 October 20 - November 10 Etiquette for Young Ladies and Young Men ages 9 - 12 FOR MORE INFORMATION ON OUR   BUSINESS ETIQUETTE AND PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT TRAINING, ADULT WORKSHOPS AND CHILDREN'S CLASSES PLEASE CALL 480 510-6346 OR VISIT OUR WEBSITE AT www.itsallaboutetiquette.com