Teaching "Social Media Manners" to You Teen

 

As parents we spend a great deal of time teaching our children manners: sharing with others, being respectful, saying "please" and "thank you." We want them to learn how to act in various social situation, so why not on-line, too? We have to face the fact that social media is not just a phase-it's is how pre-teens and teens communicate and bond with their peers. But it's also not just for teens. More and more adults are joining social media. There is a new set of manners for social media for everyone to follow. 1. Exercise the Golden Rule - Do unto others as you would have them do unto you. If you wouldn't speak to the person that way face to face, then don't do it on-line. 2. Remember everything you post on-line is public. It doesn't matter whether or not you delete the message or text. If you've published it, it's traceable. When you post things on-line, you're creating a cyber fingerprint that can be found for years to come. 3. DON'T USE ALL CAPS when you're emailing or posting something. It is a form of SHOUTING. 4. Speak kindly. Remember: it may look like a screen in front of you, but there's another person with feelings on the receiving end. 5. Don't post things when you're angry. It's never a good idea to post something when you're emotional. Take some time to clear your head before you deal with the situation. This will help you refrain from saying something that you later regret. 6. Use different usernames and passwords. Don't use the same one all the time. Many teens use the same username and password for all of their sites and this is not a good idea. If someone figures out your security information, they'll have access to everything. It's best to set-up different usernames and passwords for maximum protection. 7. Don't make up silly email addresses. You will use your email address for college applications, job applications, resumes, and scholarship opportunities. Look at your email address; Does it set a good impression? If not, reset it. 8. Don't post pictures of yourself or others unless you mind them being shared with everyone. Be very selective of what you upload on the computer.  If you can't send the picture to your Grandmother, you shouldn't be putting it on the internet. If it's a friend's photo, ask yourself if their parents would want that photo posted. If the answer's "no" then don't publish it. 9. Don't talk to strangers. Don't get into chat rooms and reveal confidential things about yourself. You may feel that you know the person on the other end of your cyber connection, but they can be a phony. 10. Don't give out personal and confidential information on-line. Never share your full name, home address, phone number, Social Security number, passwords, names of family members, or credit card numbers. Note to Parent.  One of the best ways you can teach social media manners is to practice them yourself. Our kids take their most important lessons not by what we tell them to do, but what they see US do. The social media manners they take to heart will be the ones taught by example. Let's be the role models they need.                                                          Upcoming Classes Enrolling Now!  March 24 & 25 Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18 April 7 Everyday Etiquette for Adult A great workshop for business professionals! May 19 & 20 Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18 May 26 Business Etiquette Workshop for the Professional New Workshop June & July Summer Etiquette Camp for ages 6-8 & 9-12 September 1 Business Etiquette Workshop for the Professional September 8 & 9 Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18 September 15 - October 6 E Is For Etiquette ages 6-8 October 20 - November 10 Etiquette for Young Ladies and Young Men ages 9 - 12  Class size is limited early registration is advised.

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14 Table Manners Children should Know By the Age of Six

14 Table Manners Children Should Know By The Age of Six   Children do not learn proper table manners overnight. It takes years of repetition and consistent training to refine their skills. Parents have eighteen years to help shape their child's table manners so there is plenty of time to patiently work with them. Expect lots of errors and missteps, use gentle guidance, never scold or embarrass, just kindly correct and continue eating.  If parents begin teaching manners when their children are toddlers, by the time the kids are in kindergarten they will have mastery of the basics.       The following is a list of table manners that your child should have a good grasp of by age six. 1.  Wash their hands and face before sitting down to the table.   2.  Sit down in their proper seat and put their napkin in their lap. 3.  Wait to begin eating until everyone is seated and has been served. Many families wait until an adult gives permission to start eating. 4.  Stay seated in their seats without wiggling in their chairs, going under the table, or getting up and down. 5.  Say, "Excuse Me," and ask permission to leave the table. 6.  Elbows do not belong on the table. 7.  Mouths should stay closed while chewing and pieces should be bite sized. 8.   "May I please" and "Thank you" should be used when children would like food and never reach across the table. 9.  Participate in the conversation during dinner and no interruptions when other people are talking. 10. Slurping, burping, squealing, singing, humming are all sounds that are not to be made at the table. 11. It is never kind or polite to make negative comments about what is being served for dinner. 12. Before getting up at the end of the meal say, "May I please be excused?" 13. Ask if adults would like them to clear their dinner plate. 14. Thank the cook. Teaching children to use good table manners is a wonderful gift that will serve them well throughout their entire lives.

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Don't Forget to Add this to Your 2018 New Year Resolutions!

Don't Forget to Add This to Your 

2018 New Year Resolutions

 

Every New Year we look back at the past year and evaluate and make goals as to how we can improve ourselves in the New Year. 

Children can also benefit and learn a lot about self-discipline and the value of making goals. Here are some tips on how to help your kids benefit from making resolutions to include practicing good manners.

1.  Sitting down as a family and discussing goals for the New Year is a great way to introduce manners that your child or children may need to improve on.  For example, setting the table, saying please and thank you, writing thank you notes, cell phone etiquette etc.

2.  As a family unit choose a few resolutions. When a child reaches age five, he or she is more able to comprehend a resolution and participate more in the process of picking one.  A good idea would be to make a master list to hang in a public spot, like a bulletin board in the kitchen or the laundry room.  This way the goals can be evaluated as the year moves forward.

When a parent takes the lead and shows the value setting and achieving goals your child is more apt to follow.
 
However your family arrives at resolutions, the best part is that you're doing it together.

Happy New Year!

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Everyday Etiquette for Adult

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Essential Etiquette for Teens ages 13 - 18

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Summer Etiquette Camp for ages 6-8, 9-12

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E Is For Etiquette ages 6-8

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Practice good manners when you Trick-Or-Treat!  What do your children need to know before they trick-or-treat To plan for this festive day, we're establishing some general ground rules for those on the "receiving" end.  Stay on the walk-way to the front door. You don't want to mow down your neighbors prize mums. Ring the door bell twice, if no response go to another home. Homes that are dark, should not be approached.  They are either not at home or do not wish to participate in Halloween. Carry a flash light at all times so cars can see you and you can see where you're walking.  And parents can add reflective tape to costumes and candy containers. Be courteous when someone answers the door, say "Trick-or-Treat" nicely. Be sure to say, "Thank you" after receiving your treat. Never go into someone's home. Only eat candy that is wrapped. Time to start Halloween is when it becomes dark outside and not past 9:00 p.m. Don't rifle through the candy to find your favorite treat. Take one treat unless told otherwise.                                HAPPY HALLOWEEN!   Watch us on Arizona Midday Monday, October 23rd at 1 p.m. channel 12. Destry and I will be talking about Halloween Etiquette & Safety Reminders! Accepting Enrollment Now! Essential Etiquette for Teens Half Day Workshop November 4th Ages 13-18 1:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. ****** Classes will be held in Scottsdale   LOOK at our class schedules for the New Year! Visit our website

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Eight Common Etiquette Mistakes 

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How to Avoid Them

Everyone makes mistakes.  When we make a mistake, it is necessary to apologize and move on.  Most importantly, learn from your mistakes and try not to keep repeating the same ones over.  

Following certain rules of etiquette is essential in both professional and social situations, so it's a good idea to learn them. It can mean the difference between getting ahead in business and keeping or losing friends.

 
     

1. Forgetting those whom you are with.

Always give the person you are physically with your attention. If your cell phone rings, or you receive a text that needs immediate response, politely excuse yourself and keep all electronic contact brief. Then when you return to the person, apologize and refrain from making a habit of chatting on the phone or texting when you're with someone. 

2.  Being Impolite to anyone.

Politeness extends to everyone you come in contact with, from the grocery store clerk, the person on the street and even your boss. Not being nice to people shows a lack of character.  Just remember the Golden Rule, "Treat other as you would wish to be treated."

3.  Being Late.

When people are late they are showing disrespect to others. When you agree to show up at a certain time, be there on time.  If you are running late, call and let the other person know your circumstances and your estimated time of arrival.

4.  Failing to R.S.V.P.

When you are invited to an event let the host know whether or not you will be attending, as soon as possible.  Failing to R.S.V.P. keeps the host from knowing the number of guests they will have to plan for and can be costly.  If you have given your regrets and find you can attend, call the host and ask if it isn't too late.  Never change plans if something more interesting comes along. That host may never invite you again if he/she finds out.

5.  It's All About Me!

If you have a habit of making the conversation all about you, you may find people avoiding you.  When speaking with people focus more on their interests and what they think about on certain topics.  They will in-turn ask you questions and the conversation is more enjoyable for both parties.

6.  Poor Table Manners.

If you are dining with others, brush up on your table manners.  Learn which utensil to use while dining, don't talk with your mouth full. If someone asks you a question right after you take a bite, most likely will understand and be willing to wait until you chew and swallow.  Never leave the table when people are still eating.  Wait until everyone has finished his or her meal.

7.  Failing to introduce others.

Did you know it is your responsibility to introduce people who don't know each other?  Start by simply saying, "I would like to introduce you to my co-worker Jane" it's that easy. If you forgot the person's name politely say something like, "I'm sorry. I know we've met, but I can't recall your name." Then use the person's name during the introduction and afterward in conversation.

8.  Lack of Gratitude. 

When someone gives you a gift or performs an act of kindness always say, "Thank you" and it is important send a thank you note.

 

 

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"Etiquette makes life more pleasant for everyone."

 

 

 Did you ever wonder what the world would be like if we didn't practice good manners?  

 

I always ask my students this question on the first day of class.  They are mortified when I present to them a few examples. Shopping at the mall, driving in traffic, and eating out at a restaurant to name a few. 

Let's just say it wouldn't be a world in which I would like to live in.  Growing up our parent's reminded us about the magic words, how to act at our friend's house and what was expected of us.  Now as we become adults we pass these manners onto our children because we know the importance of what manners do for us.

As adults, most of us still care about having a social life. Ignoring proper etiquette guidelines can leave us off the guest list and socially isolated.

In the professional world there are certain expectations of how a business person is supposed to act. If you follow the rules, you're perceived as confident and someone who knows what you're talking about. However, if you don't, you may be thought of as self-centered or rude.

Practicing proper etiquette is essential in all aspects of life if you want others to respect you. 

Here are some of the many advantages of having good manners:

 

1. Being nice at home sets the stage for better behavior.  If a parent
    practices good manners at home, so will their children.

2.  Professional manners get positive attention.  Following the etiquette

     rules at work will help you earn respect and possibly even contribute to

     promotions and raises. 

3.  Being kind to customers increases sales.  Showing customer's good
     manners by listening and speaking politely, you are likely to earn their
     future business.   

4.  Being polite to your friends will keep them calling.  Everyone likes to be
     around someone who has good manners. 

5.  Romantic relationships are stronger when couples respect each other. 

 

6.  Treating other people with respect makes them want to be nice back

     to you.  Hold the door for someone or give them a smile.  It might just 

     make their day! 

7.  Driving with good manners can help prevent accidents.  Everyone 
     makes mistakes.  Keep your temper in check. 

8.  Others will listen if you give them a chance to speak.  Show respect by
     listening to what others have to say.   

9.  Good social etiquette will keep your name on the guest list.   

10. Knowing and using proper etiquette regularly can help with

      confidence. If you are in the habit of using good manners all the time, you
      won't have to worry about whether or not you're doing or saying the right
      thing. It will come natural to you, and others will respect you more for it.

"Good manners are just a way of showing other people that we have respect for them." 

~Bill Kelly

 

 

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Tips to boost your child's confidence for the new school year!

BACK-TO-SCHOOL MANNERS    Where did the summer go?  Many of our children will be starting school soon.  Because they spend over a third of their day at school, good manners and social skills are of great importance.  Talking to your child about back-to-school manners will give your child the confidence they will need.  As various social situations arise they will know how to handle themselves.  This gives them the opportunity to focus on learning new things and socializing with new friends. Here are a few back to school manners that will help your child transition more easily through the new school year:  Obey the classroom rules.  Parents should ask the new teacher for these rules. Raise your hand and don't speak out. Be a good listener and don't interrupt. Help clean up. Take turns & share. Help others in need. Say "Please," "Thank You," and "You're Welcome." Respect your friends, teachers and school rules. At lunch, don't share your drinks, do chew with your mouth closed, sit in your seat while eating, clean up and throw away your trash. Don't grab or throw food. Practice the Golden Rule "Treat others as you would like to be treated." Be kind to others. Don't gossip or say mean things. Be the friend that you would like to have. Practice good hygiene (bath every day, brush your teeth, comb your hair, wear clean clothes, and keep your nails clean). Be on time. Teachers and adults should be called by called Miss, Mrs., Ms., or Mr. with their last names.   If you want your children to have good manners, make sure you set a good example. After they hear you saying, "Please," "Thank you," and "You're welcome," they are likely to follow. Praise them for being mindful of their manners to encourage them to continue.   Have a wonderful school year!  Like us on Facebook

Brush up on manners before the holidays.                                                        Upcoming Classes Enrolling Now!   August 12th                  Everyday Etiquette for Adults August 26th                  Essential Etiquette for Teens 13 - 18 September 9 - 30th       E is for Etiquette 6 - 8 October 7 - 28th           Etiquette for Young Ladies and Young Men 9 - 12            November 4th              Essential Etiquette for Teens 13 - 18 November 18th            Everyday Etiquette for Adults   Watch us on Arizona Midday Channel 12 -  July 31st at 1 p.m.  Destry and I will be discussing more about Back to School Manners!